Sand any old paint or glue off the project you plan to stain with 80-grit sandpaper. You can do this by hand or with an orbital sander to finish the job more quickly. You should always sand in the direction of the wood's grain.
Smooth the surface of the wood after the paint is removed with 120-grit sandpaper.
Run your hand or a cloth over the wood's surface to make sure it is smooth and does not snag. If there are snags, use a finer grit sandpaper to smooth it out.
Wipe off the surface with tack cloth or a cloth dipped in mineral spirits to remove any dust or grit.
Apply a prestain conditioner if you are working with a softwood such as pine. Proceed to steps for applying stain before it dries.
Mix the stain with a stir stick before you apply it to the wood. Do this each time you reopen the can.
Apply the stain with a brush on a discreet area of wood to see if you like the color. Use a natural-bristle paintbrush for oil stains and a synthetic-bristle brush for latex stains. Brush the stain onto the wood in the direction of the grain with smooth strokes.
Let the stain dry completely, which usually takes about 24 hours.
Apply a second coat of stain if you want the color darker.
Apply a polyurethane topcoat when the final coat of stain is dry. Sand the topcoat with 180-grit or higher sandpaper when it is dry, wipe it with a tack cloth and apply one more coat of polyurethane.